I'm sitting at my computer, while my awesome hubby is making Pot Roast with Mashed Potatoes with all the trimmings. He just brought me the mixing bowl that he used to make brownies, so I could lick it clean. He knows me soooooo well, and treats me so good. He rocks. I LOVE Mother's Day.
This morning he made French Toast, Bacon, and OJ for me - my FAVORITES. Instead of breakfast in bed this year, I sat with my family and enjoyed a rare Sunday morning breakfast all together. Del even ate the french toast - a first in 16 years. (He's not a breakfast food fan.) He even sprinkled it with powdered sugar - WHOA.
On Friday I sent Del a questionnaire. That's what I wanted as my gift. He still got me a gift card for a massage though (can't wait!). It was really nice reading all of his responses to my questions. I wanted him to be honest, and respond as if being interviewed by someone else. I told him to think of it as my obituary. He chuckled - asked if I was planning on dying soon. I said NO, but if I was dead, I wouldn't be able to hear it. I want it while I'm alive!
Here are the questions - just in case you want to ask your OWN hubbies. (sorry hubbies.)
1. How did you meet your wife?
2. What was your first impression of her?
3. What was she wearing?
4. Describe her eyes.
5. How much does she weigh?
6. What size pants does she wear?
7. What size shoes does she wear?
8. How tall is she?
9. When she walks in the room, what do you think when you see her?
10. Is she a good kisser?
11. Where did you go on your first date?
12. What characteristics drew you to her?
13. Tell me something special about her that NOBODY else knows.
14. Does she have any birth marks, anything that stands out, physically?
15. When people meet her, what is their general impression?
16. What is she REALLY good at?
17. What does she wish she can change about herself?
18. If she could go anywhere on vacation, where would she go?
19. Fill in the blank - "She loves it when I ________"
20. Name her top 5 pet peeves.
21. What does she like to do in her spare time?
22. What is her greatest accomplishment?
23. What was her biggest failure?
24. Is she a good friend?
25. Tell me how she is as a mother.
26. When she gets mad, what does she do?
27. When you look into her eyes - what do you see?
28. Tell me about her talents. What is she great at?
29. Does she have any bad habits?
30. What color do you think she looks the best in?
31. Do you have a favorite outfit of hers?
32. If you could change one thing about her - what would it be?
33. Is she romantic?
34. Tell me your FAVORITE thing about her.
35. Fill in the blank - "I love it when she____________."
36. Describe your wife in 1 word.
37. When you're old and gray, where will you be?
38. Do any particular songs remind you of her?
39. If her life was made into a movie, what type would it be? Which celebrity would play her?
40. If someone could get inside your head, and see your wife the way you have seen her for the last 17 years, what would they see through your eyes? i.e. - is she challenging? Is she easy to be with?
41. Besides the birth of your children and your wedding day, Describe your top 10 most memorable moments with your wife, and why they're memorable.
42. What's the hardest part about being married to her?
43. What does she struggle with?
44. How does she treat you?
45. Do you have a nickname for her? A Pet name?
46. What does she call you, and why?
47. Does anything else have special meaning to just the two of you?
48. Does she do anything quirky?
49. What is something you've always wanted to do for your wife but couldn't?
50. What do you think she is incapable of?
On Friday I got online to chat with Del. I asked him what he was doing - he said he was working on his "Kristin Thesis." Made me laugh, but I was impressed he had it done by end of business on Friday, when he barely got it Friday morning. He said he was stressing out that he'd get some of them wrong. There really are no wrong answers though. It was a fun read, and I love that I can go back and read it whenever I want to.
Shout out to all you Moms out there. You're doing an awesome job! Doesn't matter if you don't keep an immaculate house, or cook the best, most wholesome, well-balanced meals every stinkin' meal. And it certainly doesn't matter if your kids have to go diving for socks in the giant pile of clean laundry that you just can't bring yourself to fold and put away. Forget about the time you were so stinking busy on Saturday painting your closet, that you forgot to feed your six year old, and by the time dinner rolled around at 9p.m., she ate THREE corndogs (one of those healthy well-balanced meals) because she was so hungry. You're still doing a fabulous job!! Some days just SHOWING UP is quite the accomplishment.
I love YOU, Mom. For everything. For keeping my secrets, giving advice, and for your great example. For just putting up with us - 8 kids who like to torment and tease you. You rock. You da bomb. I heart you.
